People Describe What They Were Grossly Underprepared For As An Adult

Who's the boss here? Wait, me?!

"The slow realization that I am the adult in the room who's supposed to help out everyone else."- lapsangsouchogn

Not relying on your parents anymore

"Trivial in comparison to many things, but keeping up familial social obligations."

"Like, it's now on me to check in with aunt M and how she's recovering after her recent surgery, send a gift to cousin K's new baby, congratulate 2nd cousin T on his graduation, etc."

"Gone are the days when my mom did all of that and I just had to sign my name on the card or whatever."- InannasPocket

"Realizing there is no safety net."- brutustyberius

No more chilling on the quad...

"Going from having tons of friends to really having no one."- ZachariahCasey

Wondering if you have, in fact, "grown up".

"How much I still feel like a kid on the inside."- RosesSpins

Life is precious and unpredictable.

"Loss."

"As time passes and you become an adult, there are two guarantees:"

"1: the adults that shaped you, whom you love and adore, also get older."

"Older and sicker and will die, hopefully later but sometimes so much sooner than you would ever imagine."

"And 2: Peers and folks younger than you will die too, often with little to no rhyme or reason."

"My parents would say growing up that 'death is a part of life'.”

"But I’m not sure there is any way to prepare for really UNDERSTANDING that fact until you experience it yourself as you grow up."- Mbathrowaway202two

Taking care of yourself

"Dealing with a chronic health issue."- Square_Tangelo_7542

It's not all fun and games

"How little time in a week there is to enjoy 'life' after working full time."- Ser0t0n1n

That some people don't grow up.

'How insecure and incompetent other adults are."- ducvette

Bullies aren't only found in high schools.

"Bullying at the workplace by other 'adults'."- MathematicianOld1117

The truth is, nothing can prepare anyone for adulthood.

Primarily owing to the fact that no one follows the same path, so there is just no telling what life has in store for you.

But maybe the best part of being an adult, is that you are always learning, only now you don't have to show up to class or hand in homework to prove the lesson has sunk in.