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Teacher Stunned To Discover NSFW Meaning Behind Common Phrase She Uses With Students

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Teacher and TikToker @stephlynncam recounted how the vice principal of her school overheard her saying "wham, bam, thank you ma'am" to one of her students—and warned her that she should probably stop using it due to its inappropriate nature.

Many of us utter common idioms or phrases without being cognizant of their origins that have become outdated and wildly unsuitable by today's standards.

A school teacher named Steph–a.k.a. TikToker @stephlynncam–was dumbfounded to learn that an expression she'd used many times without thinking in front of her students has a dirty meaning.


She shared her stunning revelation in a storytime TikTok video about when she found out she had been "saying something extremely inappropriate" to children her entire career when a student happily turned in their essay.

“They were really excited about it, so I gave a big ol’ high-five,” Steph said. “And I said, ‘Wham-bam, thank you ma’am.’”

At that exact moment, Steph said the school's vice principal happened to walk by and asked to confirm what she just told the student.

The vice principal asked, "What did you just say?" prompting Steph to respond with the same enthusiasm she showed a few seconds ago, saying:

"I said, ‘Wham-bam, thank you ma’am,’ and they’re like, ‘Yeah, you shouldn’t say that, like, that doesn’t mean what you think it means.’”

Steph admitted she was confused because she'd been saying it for as long as she could remember, and nobody had called her out on it before
until now.

Here's the video.

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She later did some research and agreed with the school administrator's advising against the casual turn of phrase.

"So after school, on the school Wi-Fi mind you, I Googled what it meant, and yeah. I shouldn’t be saying it," she said.

The TikToker later saw a commercial depicting a similar scenario in which a woman was schooled the same way Steph was by the vice principal for saying the phrase.

She continued:

“Then about two weeks later, my husband and I are watching a commercial for a TV show, and a woman says it to her colleagues and they’re like, ‘that doesn’t mean what you think it means.' "
“So I know this is not a unique experience. So how many of us are there out there walking around saying that not knowing what it means?” Steph added.

So what does it really mean?

Previous generations may recall "Wham! Bam! Thank You, Ma'am!" being a song by Dean Martin or the lyrics at the end of David Bowie's song, "Sufragette City."

In those contexts, "Wham-bam, thank you ma’am" refers to a quick sexual encounter between two consenting adults where the male partner ups and leaves first.

The Free Dictionary describes it as a slang term meaning "Hasty sexual activity, especially when rough, unemotional, or unromantic."

While it's been widely used with slightly different variations, the earliest use of the phrase was believed to be from the 1948 play Mister Roberts, in which a sailor character says, “Well there goes the liberty. That was sure a wham-bam-thank-you ma’am!”

TikTokers were today years old when they learned the meaning.

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Some agreed it's best to avoid saying it.

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Others cut her some slack.

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Users shared anecdotes relating to casual ignorance that also served as a PSA against using other common sayings that would be inappropriate in 2025.

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In a similar vein, a classic Christmas duet has, in recent years, been yanked from holiday playlists for having sinister sexual undertones.

The song "Baby It's Cold Outside" hasn't aged well, and some radio stations have even banned the song, leading to backlash against the decision.

The lyrics focus on a man seducing a woman against her will to stay with him longer because he claims the temperature is too cold for her to go outside.

Basically, he's clueless about, or choosing to ignore, being told "No means no."

If he succeeded in having his way, "Wham-bam, thank you ma’am" could apply in this context as well.

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