We all have different opinions about dating, marriage, and even our sex lives, but one thing we can all agree on is that we should have a good time.
And some people are not shy about sharing what makes them happy.
Redditor mini-mum-wage asked:
"What is an unconventional thing you find sexy?"
Just Hands
"Hands, it’s so f**king stupid, I know, but I swear to god, when I see large and veiny (not like grandpa veiny but still) hands, I’m giggling and swinging my feet, twirling my hair, and everyone around is absolutely hornswoggled."
- PANSEXUALKALIMBA
Like the Song
"I like a girl in a short skirt and a looooooong jacket."
- Horsetoots
A Preview
"When hubby reaches for something above his head and his shirt rises just enough that his belly shows...no idea why but damn, gets the lady bits all worked up."
- No_touchie_ma_boobs
Peek-A-Boo
"The little curly wispy hair at the base of a girl's hairline."
"No idea why."
- stumpdawg
It Hits Different
"I think it is hot if a middle-aged woman wears a business suit and puts her hands on her hips and tells me she is disappointed with me."
- inkseep1
A Proper Sailor
"Ability to cuss effectively and within context."
- Adventurous-Flow4228
Symmetry Who?
"I find an asymmetrical smile very cute. There’s a YouTube channel Charismatic Voice and she is a good example of what I mean as she often smiles higher on one side. It doesn’t seem super common but I’ve noticed it as a trait of a few people."
- Eternal-Bagel
Passionate Chats
"I love when they get lost in their thoughts and talk about what interests them. Eventually, they come back to reality and apologize for rambling but I tell them to continue."
"You know they've been hurt before but they're with me now, and I love the passion."
- YaFairy
Occasional Exposure
"When the nape of the neck is exposed on someone who typically has their hair down… Good God."
- ceaseless-watcher
Knowledge is Sexy
"I like a girl I can learn from, even if she's not like directly teaching me but I can still learn something from watching her."
- SleepySleeprsn
Nervousness is Interesting
"When a guy is nervous when he's talking to me and his voice quivers."
- agentscully222
Eye-to-Eye
"I seem to be in a small minority of people in preferring partners my own height. I think there's something really sexy about seeing literally eye to eye."
- Emu_on_the_Loose
Vulnerability
"When men blush. Goodbye, panties."
- Think_Doughnut628
Lines Tell a Story
"Laugh lines on a guy’s face. My boyfriend has the most beautiful perfect little creases on an otherwise smooth face. it’s so enchanting because he’s otherwise a very stoic person."
- ReasonablePudding96
What's on the Face Counts
"Big or unique noses. It's something I've always loved about other people, and in recent years, it's something I've come to love about myself."
- strawberryyogurt_
This was a fun reminder that everyone has their own preferences, and something that may not work for someone will make someone else very, very happy.