Skip to content
Search AI Powered

Latest Stories

Mom 'Flabbergasted' After Two Random Hawaii Tourists Take Photos With Her Kids On Beach

Mom 'Flabbergasted' After Two Random Hawaii Tourists Take Photos With Her Kids On Beach
@dominique________/TikTok

Native born Hawaiians have been begging tourists to stop coming to their islands for years.

Objections to tourists have typically centered on their lack of respect or care for the land, ecosystem, and culture—which is odd since those are the things many of those same tourists say they came to experience.


Hawaiian islander Dominique has thrown her voice in with the #DontVisitHawaii movement, but she is shining her spotlight on tourists who express a different kind of entitlement.

Yes, the damage to the environment and to sacred spaces is atrocious - but she wants to talk about the damage to the people themselves and the entitlement tourists feel to use them as props rather than treat them as humans.

Like many Hawaiians, Dominique is no stranger to the beach. Neither are her children. It's common for her to sit in the sand while the children play nearby, well within her line of vision.

On a recent beach trip, she noticed a group of tourists hovering near her children and pulled out her phone to record. Dominique didn't start recording because she was worried about a kidnapping or anything.

She started recording because she had a good idea of what was coming next - and she was right.


One of the tourists approached the children while they played. That tourist, a woman who was a complete stranger to the two young kids, squatted down right behind one of the kids and struck a pose.

The man she was with nonchalantly snapped a picture.

The children, feeling unsafe and uncomfortable with the family-style portrait with Auntie Who Are You and Uncle Stranger Danger, ran back to their mother for comfort.

Dominique says this happens a lot, and it ties back to that entitlement and lack of respect from tourists.

In Japanese culture, it's considered perfectly normal to take pictures of everything that strikes you as beautiful. Dominique understood the gesture was, in a way, a compliment.

Her children are gorgeous, the Japanese couple - and many Japanese tourists before them, were so moved by the beauty they saw that they wanted to capture it.

Unfortunately, that's very not normal for Hawaiians. For Dominique, having people in your kids face like the paparazzi making them feel fearful of life on their home island is just too much.

To be clear, the issue isn't just Japanese tourists - this just happens to be a particular cultural quirk.

A quirk which, if you understand it, is honestly kind of cute.

@dominique________ /TikTok

@dominique________ /TikTok

@dominique________ /TikTok

@dominique________ /TikTok

@dominique________ /TikTok



The issue is tourism in general and the way it is literally damaging the island and its people.

Sacred spaces are being destroyed, the loss of natural resources is astronomical, native islanders feel uncomfortable outside of their homes.

Cause it's weird. Like really weird.

@dominique________ /TikTok

@dominique________ /TikTok

@dominique________ /TikTok

@dominique________ /TikTok

@dominique________ /TikTok


How would you feel if this kept happening to you and your kids? Would you feel okay with it because you understood it as a cultural compliment? Or would it irritate you since it obviously made your kids uncomfortable?

What are your thoughts on the push for tourists to stay away from the island?

More from Trending

Joshua Jackson reacts to an unexpectedly awkward question about his father.
@paceybanks/X

Joshua Jackson Was Just Asked About The 'Best Advice' He Got From His Dad—But There's One Awkward Problem

What started as a standard red carpet question quickly veered into uncomfortable territory when Dawson’s Creek star Joshua Jackson was asked about advice from a father who wasn’t actually part of his life. Jackson has long been open about his difficult non-relationship with his father, John Carter.

Back in 1998, Jackson spoke candidly to The Seattle Times about his parents’ divorce, describing it as a turning point in his childhood.

Keep ReadingShow less
Dr. Sandra Lee
TODAY with Jenna & Sheinelle/YouTube

'Dr. Pimple Popper' Star Reveals She Suffered Stroke While Filming Series: 'I Had A Part Of My Brain That Died'

It's already scary to witness a younger person go through a life-changing medical diagnosis, but it's especially jarring to see a medical professional, who presumably knows best about how to care for themselves, go through the same.

Sandra Lee, known as "Dr. Pimple Popper" on Lifetime, is well-known for her bedside manner, medical knowledge and ability to share her knowledge in an accessible way, and, of course, her unique approach to dermatological care.

Keep ReadingShow less
Rob Schneider; Elizabeth Banks
Slaven Vlasic/Getty Images; Frederic J. Brown/AFP via Getty Images

Rob Schneider Dragged For Criticizing Elizabeth Banks' 'Dangerous Rhetoric' After She Called Out White Female Trump Voters

After actor and filmmaker Elizabeth Banks—who played Effie Trinket in The Hunger Games—called out white women who voted for President Donald Trump, MAGA actor Rob Schneider lashed out against what he referred to as her "dangerous rhetoric."

Those who've read the book and seen the film adaptation of The Hunger Games know that Trinket—known for joyfully announcing, "Happy Hunger Games and the odds may be ever in your favor!"—is a mistress of propaganda for a hostile government that forces teenagers to fight to the death every year to intimidate critics and keep society's poorest and most vulnerable in line. Trinket eventually embraces the rebellion.

Keep ReadingShow less
Kid Rock
Anna Moneymaker/Getty Images

Kid Rock Dragged After Offering Massive Discount To His MAGA Festival Due To Abysmal Ticket Sales

Musician Kid Rock has hitched his wagon to president Donald Trump for quite some time now, and it seems he too is in the "find out" stage of that particularly exercise in FAFO.

It seems that when the president you form your entire personality around craters to a catastrophic approval rating even for him, your ship starts to sink too.

Keep ReadingShow less
Dan Driscoll; Tammy Duckworth
Cheriss May/Getty Images; Chip Somodevilla/Getty Images

Army Secretary Sparks Outrage After Shutting Down Army Social Media Accounts For Honoring Tammy Duckworth's Military Service

Army Secretary Dan Driscoll is facing heavy criticism after he ordered that all accounts associated with the Army unit "Soldier for Life" (SFL) be shut down after the unit shared a post on social media celebrating Illinois Democratic Senator Tammy Duckworth's military service.

Duckworth is a double amputee who lost both of her legs in combat in 2004 when her Black Hawk helicopter was hit by a rocket-propelled grenade fired by Iraqi insurgents.

Keep ReadingShow less