A Colorado mom is having her life threatened online after one of her TikTok videos went wildly viral.
The video features a controversial method of teaching swimming to infants – having an instructor throw them into a pool – and the online outrage has been swift and overwhelming.
The mother who recorded the video, 27-year-old Krysta Meyer of Colorado Springs, has only been on TikTok since February, recording videos that would get a couple thousand views at most.
But a video she took of her infant son's swimming lesson suddenly rocketed her to viral infamy in just a few days: as of yesterday, the video has been viewed more than 51 million times on TikTok and 20 million times on Twitter.
Why? Because it shows 8-month-old Oliver being tossed into a pool by his instructor like a sack of potatoes.
I know babies are born swimmers and automatically know what to do when thrown in water but I'd never let my kid be thrown in a pool 😂😂😂😂
My anxiety would kill me. pic.twitter.com/IY7j6i7fAz
— Ka Malaika 💋💘💕👅 (@ugawoman01) June 21, 2020
In fairness to Ms. Meyer, this is an extremely common method for teaching babies to swim. The focus is not so much on learning to backstroke, but on survival: should a baby, say, fall into a pool, the thinking goes, they will know how to get themselves to air so that they can survive until they're rescued. This type of class is in fact called an "infant survival class."
Speaking to BuzzFeed News, Lauri Armstrong, co-owner of the Little Fins Swim School where Meyer's son takes classes, explained it this way:
"The whole premise behind what we do is safety. We teach 8-month-olds to assess their situation and find an exit strategy [in water]. I know it seems crazy."
The classes teach infants how to flip over and float on their backs should they fall into a body of water, using their muscle memory from floating in the womb.
There isn't exactly consensus on the method though: As BuzzFeed reports, British advocacy organization Birthlight has argued that the practice is traumatizing, and the American Academy of Pediatrics has said since 2000 that there is no evidence of the method's efficacy.
Which may in part explain why Meyer's video has angered some people – to the point of threatening her with violence. As she told BuzzFeed:
"A lot of people are seeing a kid being thrown into the water and thinking, That's not good! You shouldn't be doing that! I've gotten death threats. I've had people tell me I'm the worst kind of mom, that I'm endangering my children, that I'm traumatizing them."
And the Twitter response partly bore out Ms. Meyer's claims – many people were upset by the video.
“her group's techniques are intentionally designed to disorientate the child as if they were falling off a boat. The idea, she stressed, is to prepare for the worst." hi this is called trauma and you're not meant to inflict it on babies on purpose https://t.co/zZVTkVz31V
— Tracy King (@tkingdot) June 24, 2020
I hope all those babies that are being thrown in the pool like a bag of rocks throw their parents in a retirement home
— delaney (@delaney_g_) June 23, 2020
I can't watch the videos of babies getting thrown in the pool at like 6 months old. When did this become a thing? Lmao very very strange
— Connor Ryan (@Cronnor_) June 22, 2020
But many others were, like little Oliver's instructor, totally on board with the method.
My baby will be one of those babies that gets thrown in the pool so he can learn to save his life. Not knowing how to swim is one of my biggest downfalls. I wish my parents would have done that for me
— DAISY ☽ (@daisy_daay) June 23, 2020
Why are people so anal about babies being thrown into swimming pools?? Those tiny human beings were literally hosting pool parties in amniotic fluid for 9 months. They're about that life. pic.twitter.com/LfKn3mp9AZ
— 🐾YouTube: Nkemzy Wemzy🐾 (@_nkemelo_23) June 23, 2020
Why is everyone goin wild about babies being thrown into pools. Like if you had lessons from a young age, most of you were probably thrown in like that......
— BELIEVE SURVIVORS & FUCK THE POLICE (@WoodyattMillie) June 22, 2020
Ok, the baby being thrown in the pool is terrifying. But he comes up and on his back and isn't upset and is chill AF.
I should have put my kid in swim lessons earlier in life.
— Morgan 🧵👑😷 Mask Maker (@CraftyAsFolk) June 22, 2020
And of course, this being Twitter, there were jokes!
Me to my Lush bathbomb: pic.twitter.com/LA9yGW9vrW
— Elpee Abias (@elpeeabias) June 21, 2020
Me dipping my wings in ranch pic.twitter.com/iUFElZaaEb
— BlackCultureEntertainment🗣 (@4TheCulture____) June 21, 2020
First year medical post-grad student's orientation class during COVID19 -pic.twitter.com/u76SKuT0ma
— The Zucker Doctor (@DoctorLFC) June 23, 2020
While methods like Little Fins' may be a bit much for some parents, swimming skills for small children are vitally important according to the American Academy of Pediatrics, which last year recommended that all children over one year of age should learn to swim.