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Married People Explain What They Miss Most About Being Single

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Reddit user Dramiotic asked: 'Married people of Reddit, what do you miss about being single?'

Young couples in love aspire to cement their adoration by taking a walk down the aisle.

And while many happily-married couples don't have any regrets about exchanging vows, it doesn't mean a spouse never reflects fondly on a time when they were single.

In all deference to those who are married, there's nothing wrong with a spouse feeling nostalgia every now and then.


Strangers online who are married shared their thoughts about a former status when Redditor Dramiotic asked:

"Married people of Reddit, what do you miss about being single?"
 

One thing that annoyed Redditors was misplaced items.

Disappearing Objects

"Things being where I left them."

– dramioneff

"That is one thing my wife does that is a head scratcher. I wear contacts and it is very important to her that my empty contacts case is in the cupboard under the sink. For the longest time, I wore shoes that even though they had laces, i could just slip my feet into them. My new shoes need to be tied and untied. I'll put my old shoes on the basement steps for when I need to quick run out garbage, but she'll always take them down to the basement at the bottom of the stairs. Why can't I just leave those things there? It's a small inconvenience, so I just let her have her quirks, but I don't fully understand it."

– OffTheMerchandise

Comb Caper

"When I was younger, I used to wear my hair longer. I also went to work early, which meant that I'd shower and be gone before my wife (and kids) got up."

"My only request was that there be a comb in the bathroom so I could comb and straighten my hair after my shower in the morning. If I can just have that, I'll shower, get dressed, and be out the door without waking anyone. Please dear, can you just leave the comb in the bathroom? Please?"

"But too many mornings I'd get up early, take a shower, and then be without a comb. I'd have to come out of the bathroom and start turning on lights, making noise looking for a stupid comb in my wife's purse or somewhere else in the house, while my hair is all frazzled and I'm half dressed and everyone is still sleeping."

"To mitigate this, I tried making sure there was a comb in the bathroom the night before. I'd buy a pack of 10 combs and put them in the bathroom, but they would all be gone within a few days. I'd hide one comb with my stuff in the bathroom. But 9 times out of 10 there would be no comb anywhere in the bathroom when I needed it."

"The only solution that worked was for me to hide a comb in my sock drawer. And I hid a backup in my underwear drawer. Worst case I could quietly go from the bathroom, grab the hidden comb, take care of my hair, and return it, without waking anyone up."

– 15all

Another added factor complicates things.

Not Getting Anywhere

"Being able to go somewhere ten minutes after I decide I want to."

– Certain_Note8661

"That's my only regret. It's not marriage that stopped it though. It's the kids."

– mysteriousbloodfart

On Their Time

"Incredibly impossible. Whatever their schedule is, that's your schedule. Wife's on a night shift tonight and is getting ready to leave in a few minutes. Pre-kids if she was on a night shift I'd essentially be able to do whatever I wanted. These days, one has school tomorrow and the other's at daycare. So I have to cook dinner now (as soon as I submit this post actually), and then as soon as that's done it's shower time, then bedtime."

"And once they're asleep, I get to clean the house so it can be destroyed again tomorrow afternoon when they get home."

– _ficklelilpickle

Delays And More Delays

"The Bluey episode, Sticky Gecko, encapsulates it perfectly. Bluey’s mom spends nearly the entire episode trying to get the kids ready to go the park, and the she is trying to be on time because the other mom they are meeting with is a stickler about being late. Finally Bluey’s mom snaps and says they aren’t going because nobody is getting ready. The girls finally get ready and they start heading out the door, when Bluey’s mom gets a text from the other mom saying they are running late."

"The show is really amazing because while it is ultimately a kids show, there are tons and tons of separate parent themes in basically each episode."

– 6BigZ6

Sole Decision

"Not having to consider anyone else when making a decision."

– Haunting_Assistant66

Quiet time is valuable and is often missed.

Enjoy The Silence

"Being able to come home from work and not speak a single word."

– Dull-Pickle4040

Working Out A System

"Both my husband and I have very socially demanding jobs so we’ve come to the agreement that the first hour (some days, hours) we sit in silence together (or separately) and just do our own thing. Usually it’s zoning out redditing on the couch on our own devices and we just end up sending memes and screenshots to each other. Quietly. It’s wonderful."

– addisonclark

Cancelling The Noise

"Long comfortable silences are golden."

"My wife and I both grew up in absolute chaotic households. Her parents hated each other, divorced, but nobody ever left the house. Her dad was a worthless drunk, so her mom had to work full time plus, which meant that my wife had to be the caretaker of the other children and her drunk-@ss dad. There was constant yelling, fighting, and drama. My wife got robbed of being a child and a teenager."

"My parents never divorced, they just loathed each other, and took all of their frustration out on me, the only kid. The only respite I got was school. There were times I wouldn't come home for days because of the screaming and other bullsh*t."

"So, it turns out that my wife and I really enjoy the quiet. Of course we talk, and genuinely have great conversations, but we can go for hours just being comfortably silent together hanging out. We'll sit at opposite ends of the couch, feet touching each other, and just be. I love her, and I love it."

– ka_tet_of_one

Some things just take some getting used to.

And being married and adusting to one another's quirks is no exception.

For me, getting married didn't change a thing, since we already ironed out any issues that come with living together.

After 15 years of being in a relationship, my husband and I both said "I do," and nothing dramatically changed for better or for worse.

Maybe there is something to not rushing into things.

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