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Florida Representative Carlos Guillermo Smith, a Democrat who is the first openly LGBTQ+ Latino lawmaker to serve in the state legislature, appeared visibly upset as he spoke out against a bill that would ban discussions about sexual orientation and gender in classrooms.
Florida’s Republican sponsored Parental Rights in Education bill, or H.B. 1557, was passed in the House Education and Employment Committee late last month. The bill, colloquially known as the “Don’t Say Gay” bill, aims to “reinforce the fundamental right of parents to make decisions regarding the upbringing and control of their children in a specified manner.”
The bill wants to prohibit “a school district from encouraging classroom discussion about sexual orientation or gender identity in primary grade levels or in a specified manner” and authorizes parents to “bring an action against a school district to obtain a declaratory judgment that a school district procedure or practice violates certain provisions of law.”
You can hear what Smith said about the GOP sponsored bill in the video below.
I asked the #DontSayGay sponsor to explain what topics about LGBTQ people like myself he considers to be inappropriate in our schools. \n\nSpeaker Sprowls told us not make things personal, but for me that's really hard\u2014 attacks on our community are always deeply personal to me. pic.twitter.com/MDnxT5s4PA— Rep. Carlos G Smith (@Rep. Carlos G Smith) 1645582254
Speaking while the chamber debated the legislation, Smith made an impassioned plea for his own humanity as well as the humanity of other LGBTQ people, asking:
"What topics specifically about people like myself, LGBTQ Floridians, are not appropriate to teach in the classroom? What part of conversations about people like myself are not age appropriate?”
After being scolded by Chris Sprowles, the Republican House Speaker, for asking questions "in ways that are personal to other members," Smith replied:
“I’m going to try my very best to comply, to not make my questions personal, but the bill is deeply personal and I’m trying my very best, Mr. Speaker."
Smith's opposition to the bill inspired observers who've criticized the bill's Republican backers.
They praised him for speaking out against legislation that LGBTQ+ advocates and many of his fellow Democrats said would only harm children.
Support LGBTQ people! Florida is saying it\u2019s not personal but it is. We Hear you Rep Smith!https://twitter.com/carlosgsmith/status/1496306543708581890\u00a0\u2026— Dennis (@Dennis) 1645710474
The one where @ChrisSprowls wants to censor #LGBTQIA discussion everywhere from schools to houses of Congress.\n\nWhat would happen if we proposed legislation to personally and significantly harm HIS family and told HIM not to take it personally?\n\n#DontSayGay 1https://twitter.com/CarlosGSmith/status/1496306543708581890\u00a0\u2026— Tim Peacock (@Tim Peacock) 1645642327
The \u201cdon\u2019t take it personal\u201d argument is infuriating\u2026 how do you spect for LGBTQ people to not take this personal when we were those closeted kids not long ago not being able to talk about us because we were afraid?https://twitter.com/CarlosGSmith/status/1496306543708581890\u00a0\u2026— Sh. \ud83c\udf08 (@Sh. \ud83c\udf08) 1645623488
Jesus what is happening to Florida. Republicans suck.https://twitter.com/carlosgsmith/status/1496306543708581890\u00a0\u2026— Obelisk (@Obelisk) 1645626949
\u201cDon\u2019t make things personal\u2026\u201d Excuse me? THIS IS A PERSONAL ATTACK ON COUNTLESS PEOPLE!!! Maybe someone should tell these GOP losers not to take it personally when they feel attacked for being asked to wear a life-saving mask. #GOPBetrayedAmerica #FLinDangerhttps://twitter.com/carlosgsmith/status/1496306543708581890\u00a0\u2026— \u2728Megz\u2728 (@\u2728Megz\u2728) 1645632313
So sorry @CarlosGSmith for you and others. Mad respect for you though. Hard to see you -FL State Rep. being marginalized, and denied your personhood, while your GOP colleagues smile and go in to pass this hateful legislation. Thank God for the courts and the US Constitution.https://twitter.com/carlosgsmith/status/1496306543708581890\u00a0\u2026— SamanthaHopeHerring (@SamanthaHopeHerring) 1645595241
It\u2019s personal to many people because it\u2019s our lives! https://twitter.com/CarlosGSmith/status/1496306543708581890\u00a0\u2026— Brian Haak (he/him/his) \ud83c\udf08 (@Brian Haak (he/him/his) \ud83c\udf08) 1645583161
Listen to every word of this, and then let it sink in what Republicans in Florida are doing.https://twitter.com/CarlosGSmith/status/1496306543708581890\u00a0\u2026— Will Atkins (@Will Atkins) 1645590669
I love this man. @CarlosGSmith represents ALL people of Florida with passion and a divine moral compass. Other elected officials need to learn from this person.https://twitter.com/carlosgsmith/status/1496306543708581890\u00a0\u2026— bluewave0712 (@bluewave0712) 1645592757
The bill's sponsor, Republican state Representative Joe Harding previously claimed the bill is “designed to keep school districts from talking about these topics before kids are ready to process them.”
However, his justifications have only further galvanized activists.
Last month, educator and activist Chasten Buttigieg, the husband of Transportation Secretary Pete Buttigieg, said the "Don't Say Gay" bill isn’t about “parental rights” at all but about discrimination and control. Chasten Buttigieg acknowledged LGBTQ+ people and their families have often been used as scapegoats throughout history and said the legislation would "push LGBTQ families away and into the closet."
Adding the bill would "kill kids," he went on to cite statistics from The Trevor Project, a nonprofit focused on suicide prevention efforts among lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, and questioning youth.
Buttigieg noted suicide is the second leading cause of death among young people aged 10 to 24 and that 42 percent of LGBTQ+ youth seriously considered attempting suicide in the past year, including more than half of transgender and nonbinary youth.
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