If you were anywhere near the internet the past few days, you no doubt saw the re-release of singer Taylor Swift's album Red all but take over the collective conscious—and the fixation on actor Jake Gyllenhaal, whose jilting of the singer is said to have inspired the album's song "All Too Well," that came with it.
But Swift's fans have apparently also become obsessed with singer John Mayer, rumored to be the titular John in Swift's "Dear John" from the next album she's re-recording, Speak Now.
So much so, in fact, the singer received multiple death wishes on social media from Swift's fans over the weekend—one of which he decided to shock by actually responding.
The fan, a woman named Alondra, posted screenshots of her conversation with Mayer, and they've got lots of people cringing.
See the screenshots below.
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In her DM to Mayer, Alondra wrote:
"Fu*k yourself you ugly bi*ch I hope you choke on something."
Uh, yikes.
Of course, most people send these messages to celebs never expecting in a million years to get a response. But Alondra was not so lucky this time around. As he said in his response, Mayer chose hers at random to reply to, and it was quite the shock to Alondra's system.
Mayer wrote:
"I've been getting so many messages like these the past couple days.... I'm not upset, I just tend to have a curious mind and feel compelled to ask. Do you really hope that I die?"
Awkward!
Thankfully though, Alondra and Mayer were able to reach an understanding.
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Alondra sent Mayer a voice message apologizing for her DM.
She told the singer:
"My friend literally dared me to do that. She's a Taylor fan and like so am I. It was a dare. I'm sorry. I did not expect you to see."
Mayer graciously took it in stride, joking with Alondra that "There was some healing here today!" before wishing her well.
On Twitter, many people applauded Mayer's grace and chided Swift fans for going to such lengths as death wishes.
remember when he said: “kindness takes an awful lot of intelligence"?
he could've answered harshly to her, and it would have been totally understandable (ok he's a celebrity he's used to this but that doesn't change the fact that it's not okay and it can affect ppl). instead he- pic.twitter.com/kuwQqy4aFL
— MΔDD (@bbornandraisedd) November 14, 2021
Reading this just makes my heart shatter, he was so nice and polite to them. Pls don't do this, you seem to be forgetting that celebs are humans too. We got all the fun joking around about Taylor's exes but this has gotten out of line. :((
— Isha | On Follow Limit ❁ (@MsSwiftLover) November 14, 2021
taylor swift fans are bunch of losers i cant stand them harrasing people anymore. “i didnt expect him to see my message" how's that a valid reason to send someone death threats? john mayer, you're a good man.
the media condone this by joining the “bully jake gyllenhaal trend" pic.twitter.com/V2fsOojc10
— lilo (@heavenslt) November 14, 2021
I need to know if Taylor Swift has ever directly addressed her fans about harassing anyone her songs most likely are about. I keep seeing on Instagram how fans are harassing John Mayer and Jake Gyllenhaal (and family). I've read comments that Taylor has never taken accountability
— Karen Munoz 🇺🇸🇨🇴♐ (@karmun92) November 15, 2021
As a swiftie myself, this makes me sick to my stomach.
Taylor Swift's and John Mayer's respective personal lives are none of the fans businesses.
And people wonder why i quit the Stan Community. https://t.co/0PsBkfGMHq
— johnny1248 (BLM, ACAB) (@StateOfReds13) November 14, 2021
Taylor Swift's exes are just randomly trending from Jake to John Mayer. lol I feel seriously sorry for these guys. Like imagine how many fans are coming at them for things that happened like 10 years ago.
— Bea Perrygreen (@BeaPerrygreen) November 13, 2021
Though her and Mayer's interaction ended on good terms, Alondra was careful to warn Mayer about what might come next when Swift re-releases Speak Now, and hence "Dear John."
She told the singer:
"People are going to be 1000x meaner when [Speak Now (Taylor's Version)] is released. So take care of yourself."
Many others on Twitter echoed that sentiment.
Taylor Swift fans showing up on John Mayer's doorstep when Speak Now (TV) gets released #RedTaylorsVersion pic.twitter.com/j3oCMza6na
— Moss (@moss_cosplay) November 13, 2021
Oh, god john mayer better lock his doors when speak now comes out. jake gyllenhaal got a whole ALBUM and taylor swift fans still hate mayer more (and for good reason!!)#JohnMayer pic.twitter.com/4dojCn7d9a
— lina Black (@linaBlack2222) November 12, 2021
As a Taylor Swift AND John Mayer fan I'm gonna be fighting for my LIFE in Twitter threads when Speak Now comes out, i can't wait https://t.co/X2aGNjk87y
— alyssa (taylor's version) ❤️🩹 (@alyssaannram) November 14, 2021
see the thing about jake gyllenhaal is that he had the good sense to keep his mouth shut and refuse to comment on anything regarding the breakup meanwhile john mayer was ranting to the press about how humiliating dear john was for him speak now taylor's version gonna be a circus
— kathleen (@fordhoIden) November 13, 2021
If this past weekend's fixation with Swift and Gyllenhaal's relationship is any indication of how things might go when Speak Now (Taylor's Version) drops, "take care of yourself" seems like good advice for Mayer.