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People Break Down Which Things They Were Told They'd Grow Out Of But Never Did

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Reddit user LeRuseRenard asked: 'What's something you were told you would grow out of but never did?'

As we get older, our tastes in a variety of things change as we are exposed to new things.

But sometimes, nostalgia brings us back to appreciating what we once let go.


For instance in terms of fashion, what we initially thought made us look cool and flashy may no longer serve us in our wisened years.

The retro appeal of, say, stone-washed jeans, may be trending and inspire us to reclaim the look.

But there are other things in life besides trends that also stick with us whether we like it or not, and those stubborn instances is a huge bummer.

Curious to hear more examples of things people really haven't moved on from, Redditor LeRuseRenard asked:

"What's something you were told you would grow out of but never did?"

Let's get physical.

Facial Attack

"Acne."

– blewis222

"Had a guy at the office that was late-60s with acne. I asked him about it when we got closer. I hit him with all the typical sh*t; do you use a face cleanser, moisturizer, shower regularly, change your sheets/pillowcases. He said he used to do that and realized that it never goes away except for when he's stress free. I just said 'ahhhh, f'k.' Then I got out of the Air Force and holy d*ck balls, he was right. Low/no stress is such clear skin that I now use acne as my gauge for stepping back from work and that it's time for a vacation."

– UHaveASh*tTake

Growth Sputter

"Being short."

– EVEREADY_HARTON1927

"I'm a guy who topped out at 5' 5.5" (that point five was important to me for some reason). Now that I'm into my 7th decade, life and gravity seem to have beaten me down to 5'4". Maybe 5'4.5" on a good day with a full moon providing slight relief from gravity."

– Draano

Delayed Diagnosis

"At 15, I was told the pain in my joints was from 'growing pains' when X-rays didn't show anything - nope, I had already stopped growing taller at 10, and the pain was a genetic soft tissue disorder that took until my mid-20s to properly diagnose and manage."

– GreenePony

Just because we enjoyed these as kids doesn't mean they stayed in our toy boxes.

80s Vibe

" Video games and metal music."

– Bobisburnsred

I’m a toddler mom. We jammed out to Sabaton and Delain driving home from Kid Activity yesterday."

– UnihornWhale

Once A Gamer...

"I game more than my kids. I'm a mom, mid 50's with no plan to stop. It's been a great year with Jedi Survivor and Zelda. I'm looking forward to the new Spider-Man one too."

– wylietrix

Forever Anime

"Cartoons."

– _eviehalboro

"Cartoons have somehow been always associated to children by some people. Which has lead to some really funny situations, such as seeing parents with their no more than 10 year old children going to the movies to watch... South Park. Boy, did they leave fast..."

– ThreepwoodGuybrush80

Escapism Literature

"Fantasy novels. Some of them are written for adults."

– TheBookMonkey

"Came here to see if anyone mentioned this. If you love them–you love them for life! My frustration is that 'adult' usually means twenty-something, occasionally 30. I’m 50…and there just aren’t a lot of lead characters to relate to anymore."

– Gottagettagoat

There are inclinations and behavioral traits that don't just disappear with age as these Redditors have discovered.

Deeper Than Shyness

"My aversion to most social events."

– _fancypansy

"Yeah. Somehow, even as a kid, I knew that puberty wasn't going to make me enjoy these events more."

– OP

"Social anxiety, it only got worse."

– prawie_seler

Stigma Of Being An Introvert

"The best thing about 'growing up' is realizing that some people, lots of people, don't do well at big social events and there's nothing wrong with that."

"It's okay to not go, or to say hello and leave after 1/2 hour. Forcing yourself to stay for hours because others are having fun and you don't want to leave early is pointless. Let them have fun. Say goodbye to the host, or better yet, tell then beforehand that you'll be leaving early. I used to stay hours longer than I wanted to because I didn't know about the Irish Exit."

"And btw, don't try to explain it to someone who doesn't get it. If they're pushy about it, ask for respect and don't defend yourself. There's nothing wrong with you. Or me."

"Now figuring out how to decline a damn wedding invite. Ugh"

– eekamuse

It's Not Just For Kids

"My parents literally think I’ve outgrown ADHD because 'adults can’t have it' 💀"

– Personal_plankton_35

"Oh damn. When really ur just coping and constantly on the cusp of things falling apart."

– Terrynia

What Are U Waiting 4?

"procrastination."

– extraboldscowsj28

"Does anyone really outgrow procrastination? You can conquer it with a lot of work and effort but you don't naturally outgrow it."

– OP

My love for Disney as a kid was never a phase.

My passion for the classic Disney animated films and Disneyland took root when I was 2. Since then, I've worked for the company in various roles from theme parks to Broadway, further cementing my appreciation for that Disney magic.

You might say I have the Peter Pan syndrome and never grew up.

Being an extrovert/closeted introvert at a young age, going to Disneyland was my escape from reality and where I really came to life.

That feeling is just something you can never grow out of, nurturing that notion of being young at heart.

So you can imagine my anguish when I discovered my mom threw out my vintage Disney records when I was in middle school thinking I'd outgrow them.

That was painful.

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