It’s probably better to discuss relationship boundaries before you both attend a concert where the singer sometimes gives audience members lap dances.
TikTok user @dashthelith learned this one the hard way, when he and his girlfriend attended a Chris Brown concert and he watched his girlfriend happily receive a lap dance from Brown.
Dash—as he goes by on TikTok—asked his followers what he should do in this situation.
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His followers definitely replied.
So did a lot of other people who came across the video.
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Most didn’t seem to care it was Chris Brown doing the lap dance.
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Some pointed out it’s more suspect she’d want a lap dance from Chris Brown, whose history with women is very controversial.
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She looked a little too comfortable up there, someone said.
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Again, just because he’s a celebrity, many said that shouldn’t matter.
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However, someone chimed in they would be fine, but again spun it around and said their wife wouldn’t be getting a lap dance from Chris Brown in this scenario.
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So, it looked like Dash took the advice and broke up with his girlfriend over the incident.
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For this update video, reactions were more mixed.
There were those who were still beating the drum that celebrity doesn’t matter.
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Indeed, the conversations were more about boundaries than celebrity.
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Someone said it was good he was able to break the relationship off at this moment.
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Then there were those who were on the ex-girlfriend’s side here.
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Or even seeing it from their perspective with their partner’s getting a lap dance, saying it wouldn’t matter to them.
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Another person pointed out Dash might have a bit of a confidence issue, at least in his relationships.
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Finally, it really seemed like the two of them didn’t have compatible values and boundaries, which is the crux of this whole situation.
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Let’s hope the two people in this now ex-relationship find new partners that share their values.